This article has a very interesting take on homophobia and its consequences.
Reminds me of one of the wives in Brokeback Mountain, whom i thought was the one who suffered the most among the lot.
But seriously, a term like "mixed orientation marriages"? Enough already.
Thankful that i am not gonna put someone else through this hell. Not that it never crossed my mind. When i was ‘questioning’ ie. wasn’t quite sure if i was gay when i was a teenager, i thought marriage was the only option. Thank goodness for my uni education which really opened my eyes to the notion that marriage was an opportunity, not an eventuality.